For every proverb, there is normally another one saying the opposite. Normally both are still true and valid, but under different circumstances.
Good things come to those who wait – if you’re in the business of making wine.
But if you’re looking for a rise, a change in your job, a new home, a partner, a friend, an opportunity – then you’re better off seeking them out yourself.
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You just never do. No matter how hard you think about it you just never know for sure.
You hear about people who are fit as a fiddle one moment and on their deathbed in hospital the next. No one knows when disease will strike, when their fortune will change, when their karma will catch up with them.
People who win the lottery don’t know they’re going to win beforehand. Richard Branson didn’t always know he was going to become successful, neither did Oprah. Neil Armstrong didn’t always know he was going to walk on the moon.
In the early days these people had no real idea of their future successes. They had hopes and dreams just as you have, but they didn’t know how it would turn out. None of us do. The future is unwritten – it’s all up in the air until it actually happens.
Imagine what it would have been like to have been in their shoes before it all happened… They were another nobody, just like you and me. Imagine what it would be like for them to look back on themselves before they were successful. They would be able to see how ordinary they were. They may have seen themselves much as you see yourself now…
The future is waiting for you to create it. How it turns out is up to you.
If you listened every time someone said “you can’t do that” there would be a lot of things you wouldn’t do. You would have a big list of missed opportunities. The number of successes you managed to avoid would be impressive. You would be a spectacular failure. In fact you would be the envy of non-achievers all over the world.
So if you want to achieve something in life then you have to block out these voices telling you that you’ll fail. Pay them no attention. Avoid being distracted by their arguments against your goals. Leave their negativity to them.
Of course you still have to consider your options intelligently, but if you think it’s the right thing to do – then do it.
Don’t wait for the permission or approval of others.
The secret to success is pretty obvious in many ways. But it’s often overlooked.
Perhaps that’s because it’s not sexy, glamorous or cool. You don’t often see it talked about on the covers of magazines. It isn’t very exciting.
In fact, it’s often difficult, inconvenient… even unpleasant.
But it works.
It’s undeniably the most effective way of becoming successful. Probably 99 out of every 100 successful people have followed this method. It’s the certainly the ONLY method that is guaranteed to produce results.
Unlike many other methods that promise quick results – this method actually works.
Don’t be fooled by it’s simplicity. In this case the simplest method is the best. You may be tempted to disregard it or disbelieve it because of it’s simplicity. You may say “that can’t be right, there must be more to it than that”. But there isn’t. It really is as simple as this. And the best part?
It works.
If you try this method you will be following in the footsteps of many successful people. You’ll be taking the same route as the great athletes, musicians and artists. You’ll be following the same method as those who are pioneers in their field. You’ll be taking the same approach as the great inventors, the great explorers, the great leaders. You’ll be amongst the few who really understand the secret to success.
It doesn’t take volumes upon volumes to explain this secret. You don’t have to study for years to appreciate how it works. You can fully understand it immediately.
Put simply this secret is:
Hard work.
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Perspective, that’s what it comes down to.
Bad day at work? Hey you have a job, some people would think that’s awesome. In fact millions would think that.
Nothing to watch on TV? Wow, you have a TV! Millions probably billions of people would love to be you!
Whether your life is good or bad really just depends upon your perspective.
It’s tempting to think you’ve got it bad when things don’t work out your way. When what you’re used to, or what you want, doesn’t materialise. But no matter how bad you’ve got it – someone has it worse than you. In fact they probably have it much worse.
…to name but a few.
Think of them next time you get mad because your bus is late.
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When was the last time someone really encouraged you? Probably not recently enough I’d guess.
Encourage is oxygen to the soul someone once said, so here’s some encouragement for you:
You are capable of more than you could ever imagine – literally. You are capable of things that would seem impossible to you now. These aren’t just hollow words to make you feel good, they are the truth.
You are unique and you have something to offer, whether you realise it or not.
You really shouldn’t doubt yourself as much as you do. For if you would only leave that doubt behind for a moment you would find that a whole new world opens up to you.
Sometimes what’s holding you back is a fear of the consequences of your actions. The unknown. What might happen.
If I do abc, then xyz could happen.
Gasp!
So-and-so won’t like it!
GASP!
I could fail!
Really big GASP!!!
Why not just do it anyway?
If you wait until the whole thing is perfectly planned out with every possible outcome considered and accounted for then you will never do anything. You will never be successful in anything. Your dreams will remain just dreams – unrealised.
Get into it now while you’re motivated. Enthusiasm can make up for a lot of mistakes along the way.
If you do all of these you’ll pretty much guarantee your day will be awesome.
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Small things can make a big difference – even the most fleeting of events can have far reaching consequences. You just never know the effect that your actions will have on others, even the little things that you do.
I just read a tweet by someone who likes my blog. They might not even know I read it, but at the end of a long day it really made me feel good. It made me want to write this post.
The world is in dire straights. You smiling at people won’t stop wars or end global warming, but it will most likely make someone’s day.
And there can’t be anything wrong with that.
People seldom notice old clothes if you wear a big smile.
- Lee MildonA smile is an inexpensive way to change your looks.
- Charles GordyWrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been.
- Mark TwainWear a smile and have friends; wear a scowl and have wrinkles.
- George EliotAll the statistics in the world can’t measure the warmth of a smile.
- Chris HartPeace begins with a smile.
- Mother Teresa
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It’s easy to find see the faults of others. Too easy. They’re just so glaringly obvious sometimes. Especially when you’re feeling cranky.
But what about the good points?
What if you looked for the good instead of the bad in people at all times?
Sounds like a good way to see the world.